Therei□ac□r□aing□aceandcharmthatcomeswithbeingalad□.It□sn□□ju□tabou□□utwardapp□arances,□utalsoabout□hewayonec□rr□est□□mse□□e□a□□c□ndu□tstheirac□ions.□oral□ngti□□□Id□dn'tp□y□uchat□en□ionto□ult□vat□ng□hesequalitie□with□nmys□lf□Ho□ever,□sIhavegrownolder,Ihavec□□etoreal□zet□eim□ort□n□eo□□mb□dyi□gthee□□enceof□la□yinmydailyl□fe.□□ There□sacertain□ra□eandcha□mthatcomeswithbeing□l□dy.Iti□notjustaboutoutwardappear□□ces,buta□soabout□he□ayoneca□riest□emselvesandconductstheiractions.Foralongtime□□didn'tpaymuc□att□n□i□ntocultivatingth□sequ□lit□eswithinmyself.Ho□ever,asIhavegro□n□lder,I□av□cometorealizethe□mportanceofembodying□h□essenceofaladyin□ydai□ylife. T□ere□sacer□aingraceand□har□tha□□□□e□□it□b□ingal□dy.Itisnotjustabouto□twardappearanc□s,butalsoabout□hewayo□eca□riesthemselve□andconducts□he□ract□□ns.Foralongtime,□didn'tpay□u□hattentiont□cultivatin□thesequalit□eswith□nmyse□f.Howe□□□,asIhave□rowno□d□r,Ihave□□m□torealizeth□i□po□tanceofe□bodyi□□theessenceo□alad□i□mydai□yli□e□ Therei□acer□aingracean□□harm□ha□comeswithb□i□ga□ady□Itisnot□ustabou□outwardappearan□es,buta□soa□outthe□a□onec□rriesthemse□vesandconduc□st□□iractio□s□□□ralong□i□e,Ididn'□paymuc□attention□ocultivati□□thesequali□ie□□ithinmyself.However,asIh□v□grow□ol□er,Ihav□cometorea□i□□t□e□mportanceofembo□yingtheessenceofalad□inmyda□lylife. T□ereis□ce□taingrac□□ndcharmthatcomeswit□b□i□ga□ady.Iti□not□u□ta□□utoutw□□dappe□□ances,□utals□ab□utthew□yoneca□r□esthemselvesan□conductstheirac□□ons.Foralong□ime,Ididn'□paymu□hattentionto□□□tivat□□gthesequal□□□eswithinmysel□.However,asI□avegrownolder,Ihavecometorealizetheimpor□anceofembodying□h□e□s□nce□faladyinmy□aily□□fe.□/p><□>Thereisa□□□taingracea□dcharmthatcom□swithbein□alady.Itisnotjustaboutoutwardappearances□butalso□bout□hew□yon□carriesthemselve□a□□conductst□eiractio□□.Foral□□gtime,Id□dn'tpaymuchattentiont□c□ltiva□ingth□sequaliti□swithinmys□□f.□owe□er,as□h□ve□r□□nol□er,I□□ve□o□e□□reali□etheimport□n□eofembodyi□gtheess□□ceofaladyinmydailyli□e.