Ther□isacertaingraceandcha□□□□atcom□swi□hbei□galady.Itisnotjustabo□toutw□□d□ppe□□ances,butal□oaboutthewayonecarri□sthem□el□esand□onducts□heiractions.For□lon□□□me,Ididn'tpaymuch□tte□□ion□oc□□ti□□□ing□hese□ualitieswithi□myself.Howev□r,asIhavegro□no□der□I□avec□metor□a□izethei□□ortanceo□em□odyingt□eesse□ceof□□adyinmydaily□ife.<□p> T□□reisacer□aingr□cea□d□harmthatcomeswi□hbeingalady.It□snotjus□abo□t□utward□ppearance□,butalsoab□utthe□ayonecarr□esthemselvesan□con□uc□s□heira□tions.Fora□ongtime,I□i□n'□paymuchatte□tionto□□□t□vatingthesequalitiesw□th□nmysel□.However,asIhavegrow□old□r,Ihav□□ometore□lizetheimportanceofemb□dyingt□□es□enceofal□□yi□m□dai□ylife□ Ther□□s□ce□taingracea□d□□armthat□omeswithbei□g□lad□.Itisn□tjust□boutoutwa□□ap□□ar□nc□□,buta□soabou□t□ewayonecarriest□emselvesandcond□□ts□heiractions□For□lo□g□im□,I□idn'tpa□muchatten□iontocultivatingt□eseq□aliti□swithinmyself.□owever,asIhav□gr□□nolde□,Ihavec□me□ore□lize□he□mportanceofembod□ingtheesse□ceof□la□□inmyd□ilyli□□.□□□p>T□e□eisacertaingr□ce□nd□harm□hatc□m□swithbeinga□ady□Iti□notjustabouto□twardappearance□,b□talsoaboutthewayonecarries□hemse□□esandcondu□□stheiractions.Foralongti□e,Ididn'tpaymuchattentiontoculti□ati□g□hes□qu□li□ieswith□nmyse□f.How□ver,asIhavegr□wnolde□,Ihavecomet□reali□etheim□ortanceofe□body□ngtheessenceofal□dyinmy□ailylife. Thereisac□rtaingraceandchar□thatc□mesw□□hbeing□la□y.I□isnotjustabou□o□□w□rdappe□rances□b□t□lsoaboutthe□□yoneca□riesthemselvesa□dcond□□tstheiractions.F□ralo□gt□me,Ididn'□paymucha□t□ntio□tocult□vat□ngthe□equ□litieswit□i□mys□lf.Ho□ever,as□have□r□wnolder,Ihavecometorealiz□the□□p□rtanceofembodyi□g□he□ssenceofalad□inm□□ai□y□ife.